Candy has had no shortage of good, positive and productive men in her life. Her problem has been keeping them, the good, productive husbands. I was her second of four husbands. Please notice that the only relationship that she has been able to make work, is with Paul. Paul is undoubtedly the least productive of her husbands. Paul stays at home all day with her, where she can keep an eye on him. This is not normal and probably why the rest of us did not work. According to Judge Adams' ruling, we, the three productuve and seemingly responsible husbands were all victimizing Candy.
Mark, a great friend of mine, is a DPD Officer, no thanks to Candy who tried to have him thrown in prison by claiming that he raped her at gun point.
Obviously this was a lie and was dismissed. Mark lost 2 years of work (repaid) but came close to going to prison.
Mark is now very happily married to a very beautiful and wonderful woman and has an awesome, healthy, happy 5 year old son.
Mark and his family live in a suburb of ypsi in a very large newer home in a very safe community.
Jodi was Candy's 3rd husband. At the time of their marriage, he'd been with the power company (not DTE) for almost 20 years.
Jodi owned his own home in a very nice part of Lansing.
As a wedding gift, he bought Candy a brand new Cadillac Escalade.
During my marriage to Candy, Jody, her "friend" provided her with gifts until I put a stop to it. This didn't sit well with Candy. But I didn't give a shit.
My wife shouldn't receive gifts from other men. Paul doesn't seem to mind.
Paul is Candys longest standing relationship. I know that Candy is a manhood robbing bull of a hoodrat which is why we did not work out.
From conversations with Paul, I can say that he is not a real man in the manly sense of the work. He's a stay at home dad in a home where no one works. Their DV complaints were always her accusing him of cheating or wanting to.
Paul can read and seems to be fairly intellegent but can not stand up to his wifes ignorance in our court order. He follows blindly so as not to piss her off.